No. Plenty of people come for Saturday only, and that's fine — it's the biggest day and the one with the group photo. Just tell us which days on the RSVP so we don't set a place for you at Friday dinner and wonder where you went.

Yes. Bring them. Just count them in your headcount on the RSVP so we've got enough food and a shirt in the right size. Nobody's ever been turned away from this thing and we're not starting now.

$300 per adult, kids under 12 is half off. That covers meals, the venue, and your t-shirt. It does not cover your hotel room or the cruise — those are booked separately, and details for both are on the Location page.

Hot. It's Mobile in July, and there's no getting around that. But everything happens under the oaks and pines where the shade is deep, there'll be water and cold drinks everywhere, and the afternoon boat ride is specifically timed for when the breeze picks up. Wear light clothes and comfortable shoes.

Constantly. There are trails to run, lawn games Saturday afternoon, water games Friday, and a hundred acres to burn energy on. Put your kids' ages on the RSVP and we'll plan around them. Older cousins have historically volunteered to run the younger ones ragged, and we encourage this.

Just email [email protected] and let us know. No explanation needed, no hard feelings. We'd rather adjust the count than set out food for people who aren't coming. Same goes the other direction — if you decide late that you can make it, reach out and we'll squeeze you in.